Changing the Focus BLOG

The Army ads these days talk about being an “Army of One”. I see their point. To successfully accomplish any goal we need to first be strong individually, so we can be strong collectively. That‘s true for the rest of us personally and professionally, as well. We must possess something (love, kindness, technical skills, forgiveness, the capacity to learn from others) before we can give it away or pass it along. So the time we take to develop these skills is critical to our success. As we become the kind of people we have always wanted to be, we will possess the kind of skills that will strengthen ourselves and those around us. Now that’s a real Army of One.

Positive Thought of the Week

I will give myself the time it takes to keep centered and balanced and growing every day. I will feel, think and act in ways that strengthen me and the people around me. I know that having a skill, belief or feelings can be powerful to posses but I also know they will grow exponentially when I give them away. I am worth the time and effort it takes to learn and they are worth the time and effort it takes to teach.

Business Thought of the Week

“A fool empties his head every time he opens his mouth.”

This week I will think through what I want to say before I say it. I will give myself the time necessary to think before I speak. It takes tremendous time and effort for me to build trust and motivation in people and only a few misplaced words and phrases can destroy so much of my well intentioned work. This week I will pay close attention to my get out of jail free phrases (that don’t work anyway): “nothing personal” or “sorry, that came out wrong”; “I meant that in fun it’s no big deal”. I must remember when I am in charge, everything I say can be a big deal and I want my words to count.

I am in town this week doing a workshop and developing a new corporate coaching program. I can’t tell you how much fun it is to be working closer to home. Dayton comes home tomorrow for the summer and Susan and I are very excited to have him back home. He has always been one of my best teachers for both helping me develop new perspectives and levels of patience. Please pass this message along to anyone you feel could use a positive message. Spread the word and be an example for positive change.

All the Best…
-John